If you cook someday and you do not find the taste from what you have cooked, you should learn first the law of cooking. You prepared tea, and if your tea is not serving you the same taste as the tea prepared by your wife does, then you must understand the law of the tea prepared by your wife.
If you are not happy with the results that have just landed in front of you, you must learn how the results are created. If your outcome is not able to bring a sense of happiness, your outcome is not matching the picture of the outcome you have estimated and dreamed. Your outcome is not really what you wanted it to be. You need to know the law of outcome. You must learn how the happiness results, how you become satisfied and how does frustration comes to you.